



I bet everyone knows how I’m going to start this post…5 months already??? Where has the time gone? Well we’ve done lots of growing and developing in the last month, even though it seems to have flown by, Ryder has used the time wisely! Our 5 month photo shoot:
Ryder’s Five Month Fun Facts:
Each month that passes, Ryder becomes more and more alert and active. He notices a lot more things now, and you can see the wheels turning in his head when he’s trying to make sense of something. He loves when we read him books and actually watches the book and listens now. His favorite thing is when Mommy and Daddy “tell him secrets”, that always gets a laugh out of him. His laugh melts my heart, I will never get tired of hearing that sweet sound. Ahhh the joy this baby brings to our life, I just can’t even put it into words.
It was a Monday, the date was August 18th, 2008, this was the first time that the words “I’m Pregnant!” came out of my mouth. First to Alan who was sitting on the kitchen counter patiently anxiously awaiting the results. We both busted out laughing, not exactly sure what to think, or what emotions people are supposed to have – but that is how we reacted, laughing and hugging. I picked up the phone and called my Mom who was shocked and SUPER excited! He called his Dad saying “umm, I think Brandy might be pregnant, she took a pregnancy test and it’s positive” to which his Dad responds “if she took a pregnancy test, and it is positive, then she IS pregnant” and he was right. There was no maybe about it, I definitely WAS pregnant. He passed the phone to Cindy so that I could share the news with her.
I had no clue on that day how much my life would change, from that very moment forward. It wasn’t all about ME anymore, or all about Alan, suddenly there was this other life, one that we were in charge of, never again would a decision be made without first thinking of the “baby”. My favorite quote that I read while I was pregnant that rang so true for me was:
~A Mother’s joy begins when new life is stirring inside, when a tiny heartbeat is heard for the very first time, and a playful kick reminds her that she is never alone.~
Here is my pregnancy in pictures:
At my baby shower, above with my bridesmaids (minus 1)
The date stamp on the one below cracks me up. They threw my baby shower March 1st so that I would have almost a complete 2 months to get ready for the baby – who knew 2 months would turn into 2 weeks!
And here is how baby Ryder progressed:
Fun Facts:
I can’t say that I loved everything about being pregnant, I complained about all my little aches and pains, I did not enjoy pricking my finger 4 times a day to check blood levels, or needing Alan’s help getting my boots off because I just couldn’t reach, or the frequent nightly trips to the bathroom. But the end result made it all so worth it. I said it 5 minutes after he was born and I’ll say it again now – I would do it all over in a heartbeat! Stay tuned…..not any time soon….but one day :)
Daddy and Uncle Gregg made breakfast!
Ryder played with toys…
We went to Madeline’s birthday party. The birthday girl was all over the place so we didn’t get a picture, but here’s Ryder playing with his Cousin Aaron. So adorable!
And we finally got to meet Adam (A friend’s baby that is 2 months older than Ryder)
Adam is so big for his age, and Ryder is tiny for his age, so we thought this picture of their legs was hilarious!
WHY CAN’T EVERY DAY BE SATURDAY???
Sunday’s are great too! We woke up smiling, as always…
Chewed on more toys…
Got in the car and went to Church
Then to Grandma’s. It was a beautiful day so we sat outside, enjoying the breeze and all of Memew’s Love!
But the coolest thing of all, the best part of the whole weekend was…..
RYDER FOUND HIS FEET!!!
When the week starts to get stressful and overwhelming, I’m going to look back at the pictures above to remind myself of the simplest pleasures that life has to offer…like a baby being completely fascinated with his toes :)